lol, no probs mate i dont see anything wrong with the hook size with 3 bits of fair sized corn, plus you will get better hook holds the pellet thing might be true but if your using a balanced bait it will sit on the botom eventualy anyway so it should sit in the middle of all the pellet, maybe try a small 8mm pre drilled pellet on the hair with something like a size 10 or 12 hook on that?
with meat i throw in about a hand full of chunkc and a small ball of mahed meat, just tear some chunks of the tin put them in your hand and rip them all to small bits and then mush it all up into a paste, just leaks oils, i then just put a smallish cube on the hair as usual if im not casting a long way if i intend to give it a bit of a chuck i use middy meat hooks they have a big screw in stead of a hair to put your meat on making it stable and can withstand a good chuck, they're also good for cheese and small bits of potatoe