James its not harsh at all and if you think it is then you need to read it again.
Yes it is a forum and we do share info and learn stuff but to join, tell us nothing about yourself apart from you've just returned do you think you would be a good syndicate member? I wouldn't vote for you to join mine.
Join in the questions and answers, take part in the banter,maybe even attend a social get to know us and let us get to know you first.
I will ignore your request to jog on, I don't run for anyone...